Approaches
Sex and Intimacy Coaching
What is sex and intimacy coaching compared to counselling or therapy?
Coaching sessions, whether conducted in person, over the phone, or online, are exceptionally impactful. Unlike counseling or therapy, coaching concentrates on the present and future, rather than delving deeply into the past.
This approach is less emotion-centric and more geared toward tangible, practical solutions, yielding results and behavioral change. The efficacy of intimacy and sex coaching hinges on your determination to instigate changes, your commitment to consistency and accountability, and your openness to creating ample room for sustainable transformations. Here’s a glimpse into the range of coaching topics:
Ramping yourself up or slowing yourself down
Dating and getting back out there

Having sex for the very first time or after a longer rut
The skills of intimacy and erotic communication
Creating a dating or erotic profile
Mind blowing sexual and erotic skills
Asking and recognizing in an encounter enthusiastic consent
Scripting for disclosure on an intimate matter
Learning accountability and the skills of reconciliation
“I needed help with my dating life. It’s been a while since my divorce and felt lost and overwhelmed with the whole thing. I decided to do online dating and figured it can build my confidence whether I found a match or not. Dr. Reece helped walk me through my thoughts, fears and challenged my inner-critic. Eventually I went on a few dates. I’m still nervous about it but now I have better tools to ease my worries while putting myself out there.” – Client: Heterosexual male, 47 years old, divorced, 2 children
“It's always been hard for me to translate my thoughts into words. You've [Dr. Reece] helped with my communication skills and I now feel a lot more confident talking my feelings and what's on my mind with different things related to sex.” – Client: Heterosexual male, 23 years old.
"I've always had sexual pain. Now that I'm married and my husband is fairly large, I was really scared it would be extremely painful. You helped us with not only connecting us with the right people to address my sexual pain, you've helped with our sex life with practical ways to make sex less uncomfortable. Thank you so much!!! – Clients: Female, 31 years old, male 34 years old.
Should you choose this approach, together we will:
- Determine your goals and concrete experiences
- Brainstorm new approaches, ways of thinking and doing things differently to meet your goals
- Develop a realistic plan that is attainable and measurable to your personality and lifestyle
- Identify your vulnerabilities, strengths and level of commitment
- Make adjustments as warranted as new realizations emerge