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Sexism affect men’s sex lives too
We don’t talk enough about how sexism affects men’s lives. The idea of ‘toxic masculinity’ is a real thing and if we can move more into ‘heathier masculinity’ or ’empowered masculinity’ or even ‘compassionate masculinity’, not only do we free ourselves from cultural expectations, we become more confident, more empowered in who we are, and […]
The Throes of Limerence
From the song Crazy Little Thing Called Love by Queen “She drives me crazy, she gives me hot and cold fever, then she leaves me in a cool cool sweat.” Consider these three scenarios: Scenario 1: “I can’t stop thinking about her. She occupies my mind and I get easily distracted at work and […]
Intimate Breakups
Whether the break up is with a longer-term beloved or with a shorter term intimate sexual partner, the emotional impact of a breakup is not any different for these relationships. It can be soul-destabilizing and can feel heart-sinking. The mind may be on a replay loop with the never ending ‘why’ questions. For those enduing […]
There’s no Shame in Seeing a Sex Therapist
It’s safe to say that the majority of us have not lived in a home environment or culture that embraces sexuality in a positive way. Think back to the first time someone spoke to you about sexuality. If the conversation was about sex, it amounted to the following: How NOT to get pregnant How NOT […]
Compromise vs. Sacrifice: How healthy is my relationship?
When individuals share with me that they’re feeling unfulfilled, we being the process of exploring not necessarily the relationship itself, but who the client is in within the context of the relationship. In other words, “Who are you as an intimate and sexuality being, what your relationship history, and what are your relationship values and […]
Question: Is sexual identity the same as sexual orientation?
I just finished a guest lecture to teachers (K-12) discussing the basics and nuances of human sexuality in relation to sexual identity and sexual orientation. Because how we use language and terminology can be a bit confusing and complicated, I decided to record this video blog to the question that was posed: Is sexual identity [...]